Partners
Partners represent the people you share your sexual activities with. You can manage detailed profiles for each partner, track per-partner statistics, and link them to friend accounts for data sharing.
Managing Partners
Access your partners from:
- The Partners quick stat card on the Home screen
- The Partners section in Settings
Partner Categories
Your partners are organized into three sections:
| Category | Description |
|---|---|
| Active Partners | Partners currently in use — shown when creating activities |
| Shared Partners | Partners from connected friends (read-only) |
| Inactive Partners | Partners you've deactivated — hidden from activity creation |
You can toggle the visibility of inactive partners in Settings → Preferences → Show Inactive Partners.
Sorting Partners
Partners can be sorted by:
- Last Used — Most recently used partner first
- Name — Alphabetical order
- Ascending / Descending order
Your sort preference is saved and persisted.
Creating a Partner
- Go to the Partners section
- Tap the + button
- Fill in the partner details (see below)
- Tap Save
You can also create a partner directly during activity creation by tapping the + button in the partner selection pills.
Partner Fields
| Field | Required | Description |
|---|---|---|
| Name | ✅ Yes | The partner's display name |
| Gender | ❌ No | See gender options below |
| Relation | ❌ No | See relation types below |
| Birthday | ❌ No | Used for zodiac compatibility and birthday reminders |
Gender Options
| Gender | Icon Color |
|---|---|
| Male | Blue |
| Female | Purple |
| Transgender | Pink |
| Non-Binary | Yellow |
| Genderless | Grey |
| Unknown | Grey |
Relation Types
| Relation | Description |
|---|---|
| Lover | Romantic partner |
| Friend | Friends with benefits (FWB) |
| Stranger | Casual / one-time encounter |
| Other | Any other type of relationship |
Partner Detail Page
Tap on a partner to view their detail page, which includes:
Profile Information
- Name, gender, relation type, birthday, age
- Whether the partner is active or inactive
- Connection status — Shows if this partner is linked to a Fapstats user account (see Couples & Data Sharing)
Zodiac Compatibility
If both you and the partner have a birthday set, Fapstats shows your zodiac compatibility:
| Compatibility | Meaning |
|---|---|
| ✨ Perfect Match | Highly compatible zodiac signs |
| 👍 Good Match | Compatible zodiac signs |
| ⚠️ Not Compatible | Incompatible zodiac signs |
The 12 zodiac signs are determined by birthday: Aries, Taurus, Gemini, Cancer, Leo, Virgo, Libra, Scorpio, Sagittarius, Capricorn, Aquarius, Pisces.
Partner Statistics & Charts
The partner detail page includes:
- Partner Orgasms Chart — Line chart showing the partner's orgasms per day in the current month
- Year Overview — Bar chart showing activity count per month with this partner
Actions
| Action | Description |
|---|---|
| Edit | Modify partner details |
| Set Inactive | Hide partner from activity creation (won't delete any data) |
| Set Active | Re-activate an inactive partner |
| Delete | Permanently delete the partner and all their activity links |
Deleting a partner is permanent and removes them from all activities they were associated with. Consider setting them to Inactive instead.
Partner Birthdays
When a partner has a birthday set, Fapstats shows a birthday banner on your home screen when their birthday is coming up or today.
Linking Partners to Friends
Partners can be linked to other Fapstats user accounts through the friends system. This enables the Couples & Data Sharing feature.
When a partner is linked:
- The partner's detail page shows a connection badge
- Activities with that partner are shared to the connected account
- Both accounts earn XP from shared activities
See Couples & Data Sharing for the full setup guide.