Connect Accounts to Share Activities
This guide walks two Fapstats users through the complete process of linking their accounts so that shared activities count for both — including XP, statistics, calendar entries, and achievements.
Prerequisites
- Both users have a Fapstats account
- Both users have the app installed (or access via web at app.fapstats.com)
Step 1: Create Partner Entries
Each user creates a partner entry for the other person.
User A (e.g., Sophia):
- Go to the Partners section
- Tap the + button
- Enter your partner's name (e.g., "Janik")
- Fill in any other details (gender, relation, birthday — all optional)
- Save
User B (e.g., Janik):
- Repeat the same steps, creating a partner entry named "Sophia"
Step 2: Exchange Friend Codes
Each user finds their unique Friend Code:
- Go to Settings
- Tap Friend Code
- Copy the code and share it with your partner (via message, in person, etc.)
Friend codes are long unique strings (UUIDs). Make sure to copy the full code exactly.
Step 3: Send and Accept Friend Requests
User A:
- Open the Friends page from the sidebar menu
- Tap Add Friend
- Paste User B's friend code
- Tap Send Request
User B:
- Open the Friends page
- Go to the Pending tab
- Find the request from User A
- Tap Accept
You are now mutual friends.
Step 4: Link Friends to Partners
This is the critical step that enables data sharing.
User A (Sophia):
- Go to the Friends page
- Tap on your friend (Janik)
- On the Friend Detail page, tap the option to link this friend to a partner
- Select your existing partner entry "Janik"
- Confirm the link
User B (Janik):
- Repeat the same steps — link your friend "Sophia" to your partner entry "Sophia"
Both users must complete this step. If only one side links, data sharing is limited. Full bidirectional sharing requires both users to link.
Step 5: Verify the Connection
Once both sides are linked, verify it works:
- User A creates a sex activity and selects "Janik" as a partner
- User B checks their calendar — the activity should appear as a participated activity
- User B checks their XP — they should have received 500 XP
If the activity does not appear for User B, double-check:
- Both users completed Step 4 (linking friends to partners)
- The friendship is mutually accepted (not just pending)
- The activity type is sex (masturbation activities are never shared)
What Happens After Linking
Once both accounts are connected:
| Feature | How it works |
|---|---|
| Calendar | Shared activities appear in both users' calendars |
| XP | Both users earn 500 XP for shared sex activities |
| Statistics | Shared activities count in both users' stats |
| Achievements | Achievement progress counts participated activities |
| Records | Personal records include participated activities |
| Year Recap | Participated activities are included in the year summary |
Troubleshooting
| Issue | Solution |
|---|---|
| Friend code not working | Ensure the full UUID is copied exactly, with no extra spaces |
| Friend request not arriving | Check the recipient's friend request privacy setting (may be set to "Nobody") |
| Activities not shared | Both users must link friends to partners (Step 4), not just one |
| Only sex activities show | Masturbation activities are never shared — this is by design |
Related Pages
- Friends and Data Sharing — Full reference for the friends and sharing system
- Partners — Creating and managing partner entries
- Account Settings — Where to find your friend code