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Partners

Partners represent the people you share your sexual activities with. You can manage detailed profiles for each partner, track per-partner statistics, and link them to friend accounts for data sharing.

Managing Partners​

Access your partners from:

  • The Partners quick stat card on the Home screen
  • The Partners section in Settings

Partner Categories​

Your partners are organized into three sections:

CategoryDescription
Active PartnersPartners currently in use — shown when creating activities
Shared PartnersPartners from connected friends (read-only)
Inactive PartnersPartners you have deactivated — hidden from activity creation

You can toggle the visibility of inactive partners in Settings > Preferences > Show Inactive Partners.

Sorting Partners​

Partners can be sorted by:

  • Last Used — Most recently used partner first
  • Name — Alphabetical order
  • Ascending / Descending order

Your sort preference is saved and persisted.

Creating a Partner​

  1. Go to the Partners section
  2. Tap the + button
  3. Fill in the partner details (see below)
  4. Tap Save

You can also create a partner directly during activity creation by tapping the + button in the partner selection pills.

Partner Fields​

FieldRequiredDescription
NameYesThe partner's display name
GenderNoSee gender options below
RelationNoSee relation types below
BirthdayNoUsed for zodiac compatibility and birthday reminders

Gender Options​

GenderIcon Color
MaleBlue
FemalePurple
TransgenderPink
Non-BinaryYellow
GenderlessGrey
UnknownGrey

Relation Types​

RelationDescription
LoverRomantic partner
FriendFriends with benefits (FWB)
StrangerCasual or one-time encounter
OtherAny other type of relationship

Partner Detail Page​

Tap on a partner to view their detail page, which includes:

Profile Information​

  • Name, gender, relation type, birthday, age
  • Whether the partner is active or inactive
  • Connection status — Shows if this partner is linked to a Fapstats user account (see Friends and Data Sharing)

Zodiac Compatibility​

If both you and the partner have a birthday set, Fapstats shows your zodiac compatibility:

CompatibilityMeaning
Perfect MatchHighly compatible zodiac signs
Good MatchCompatible zodiac signs
Not CompatibleIncompatible zodiac signs

The 12 zodiac signs are determined by birthday: Aries, Taurus, Gemini, Cancer, Leo, Virgo, Libra, Scorpio, Sagittarius, Capricorn, Aquarius, Pisces.

Partner Statistics and Charts​

The partner detail page includes:

  • Partner Orgasms Chart — Line chart showing the partner's orgasms per day in the current month
  • Year Overview — Bar chart showing activity count per month with this partner

Activity List​

The partner detail page includes an Activities tab with a scrollable list of all activities involving this partner. Each entry shows the activity date, type, rating, and other details. Tap an activity to view it in the calendar.

Actions​

ActionDescription
EditModify partner details
Set InactiveHide partner from activity creation (data is preserved)
Set ActiveRe-activate an inactive partner
DeletePermanently delete the partner and all their activity links
warning

Deleting a partner is permanent and removes them from all activities they were associated with. Consider setting them to Inactive instead.

Partner Birthdays​

When a partner has a birthday set, Fapstats shows a birthday banner on your home screen when their birthday is coming up or is today.

Linking Partners to Friends​

Partners can be linked to other Fapstats user accounts through the friends system. This enables shared activity data between two connected accounts.

When a partner is linked:

  • The partner's detail page shows a connection badge
  • Activities with that partner are shared to the connected account
  • Both accounts earn XP from shared activities

For a step-by-step guide, see How to Connect Two Accounts to Share Activities.